So about two years ago, I was riding my mountain bike, just minding my own business when the earth decided that it had enough of me and threw me off.  Well, as you might imagine, I came back to earth but I landed on my shoulder.  Like most guys, I brushed myself off, found that I could move everything and rode home, telling my wife that it really wasn’t all that big of a deal but how cool it was that I must have cleared 10 feet.

But it did turn into a big deal. I really screwed up my shoulder.  Never realized how important my shoulder was until I couldn’t lift my arm.

Now, I think its also important to point out that I wear the equivalent of adult “Huskies”.  For those of you that didn’t have to wear this “fine” brand of clothing as a child, lets just say its for the more portly fellow.  While I enjoy mountain biking, I really need to.  Otherwise I tend to gravitate towards looking like Jabba the Hut.  So rather than say no to that third slice of pizza, I justify it with a frequent ride in the dirt.

Ok, so now what do I do?  So no to that last piece of cheesecake?!  Parish the thought!

Well, after several shots of cortisone and months of physical therapy.  I had my shoulder opened up and fixed.  But hopping back on the bike wasn’t so easy.  It took awhile.  A looooong while.  Since my goal hadn’t changed of keeping my weight under control, I needed to change my approach.  So I started running.  

Those of you that are also new to this, know all too well of what I am about to say.  I found muscles in my legs and back that I didn’t know that I had.  I seriously walked like a duck for several days.  The pain in my shoulder didn’t seem all that bad after enduring the shin splints.  But I kept at it.  

Now, I am back in the saddle, literally, as well as continuing to run.  I have lost about 20 lbs and managed to keep it off.  Well, I did have to draw the line on the occasional cheesesteak that finds its way onto my plate.  But I am doing it.  

So what does this have to do with learning or training in the office or even management?  Sometimes, we encounter obstacles.  Someone doesn’t agree with us, someone is demanding something that is not possible, or someone that won’t listen.  We can either keep doing what we have been doing and should then expect the similar results.  

Or we can try something different and run.